Boyfriend judges me for my body count.

We are both 19. His is 3, including me, and mine is 6, including him.

He’s been upset about this for a long time.

In the past, I have called his ex gf a slut during an argument because of the way she dresses (not cool, I know.)

Well, last night mid argument he told me “You called me ex gf a whore when you’ve had sex with 5 more people than her.”

He claims that at the very beginning of our relationship when he asked me, I said my number was 3. I don’t know if I actually said that or not. But if I did lie, it would have been because I knew how upset he would be over a difference of 3.

He demanded me for names of the people I slept with, I said no because that’s unhealthy and would do no good for him. He said I know the names of the people he’s slept with so it’s not fair.

With the insult he gave me I guess both people he’s ever slept with are virgins. So I must automatically be not as pure.

Don’t know what to do to ease his insecurity.

We are serious and I see myself getting married to him some day.