Would you be with a girl who doesn't like going out at night?

F21. I’m not a party girl, I prefer to stay at home in the evening, and see my friends during the day and in quiet places (like cafes, the library etc)

But when the topic of nightlife comes up in conversations, I find myself lying: I tell them that I like to have a few drinks and dance (I don’t drink alcohol and I don't like dancing in public).

I know I shouldn't lie, but I feel embarrassed saying how I really like to spend my time (books, TV series, etc.). I think it makes me seem like a boring person and I'm afraid it's a turn-off.

also, right now I like a fairly outgoing guy and I found myself feeling inferior to him (as if I was missing something)

I know that every guy is different, but I'm curious to know the points of view.