TIFU: by thinking my daughter was being raped and sending her bf to the hospital
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TIFU: by thinking my daughter was being raped and sending her bf to the hospital
Originally posted to r/tifu
TRIGGER WARNING: Violence, assumption of sexual assault
Original Post May 31, 2019
I’m still trying to process what just happened. Today was my daughters 19th birthday and I wanted to surprise her by coming home early with a cake. I brought the cake home, slowly tip-toed to her room to surprise her and heard something I will never unhear. She was having sex with her boyfriend and saying “please stop it hurts, stop it.” I ran in, screamed for him to stop and pulled him off my daughter. I was shouting at him and my daughter was mortified and screaming at me. I threw him to ground and accidentally knocked him unconscious. My daughter was frantically explaining to me that it’s a fetish and he wasn’t actually hurting her. I told her to get dressed, found a blanket to wrap her bf in and I rushed him to the hospital. He’s doing okay now and isn’t suffering any major injuries but I feel awful. I’m not an aggressive person but it was my daughter and I truly thought he was hurting her.
TLDR; mistook my daughters fetish for her bf hurting her and knocked him unconscious
Edit: I’m her strong mom 😆
Edit: Wow this blew up. Thanks everyone for the nice messages, advice, and sweet comments. I haven’t been able to get through it all but I will, and I’ll reply to whoever I can. It’s currently 3am and I just cooked him some food and I’m going to visit him and my daughter at the hospital. His parents live out of town and want to visit tomorrow. Please pray for me.
RELEVANT COMMENTS
DogsNotHumans
Hey mama, I'd have done the same fuck-up. The kids are okay and now we've learned... Well, I'm not sure what we've learned, but the kids are both ok.
OOP
THATS all that matters 😂 thanks mama
[deleted]
I don't know what we've learned but the important thing is, we're learning
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leggiera
What happened to the cake?
OOP
I dropped it icing face down on the floor. The carpet will never forget.
KatefromtheHudd
The cake was the true innocent victim in all this, not the bf. RIP cake, you would have been tasty.
Corvus
I feel bad for the carpet tho. It didn't expect to get creamed as well :/
TIFUpdate June 22, 2019 (1 month later)
Hey everyone. This happened a few weeks ago but I haven’t had time and just wanted to make sure everything had settled down before updating.
In the original post I left out some details that caused a lot of confusion so I will clear those up now. When I went into the room I grabbed his shoulders and started screaming at him. He stood up and I pushed him down. I went over to my daughter to make sure she was okay and she was screaming that it was a fetish. Her bf was unconscious and we sat there trying to wake him up. He woke up and was conscious but was shocked/confused. He was wearing his jeans with his wiener out while they were having sex and was also shirtless, so I wrapped a blanket around him to cover his genitals and upper body and helped him into the car. In the car he zipped himself up and I gave him my sweater to wear. I realize now how my original post might sound like I was driving him around unconscious but I would have called the ambulance and not tried driving him myself as this would’ve been life or death so I’m sorry this was misleading. Hell, I probably wouldn’t have been able to carry him to the car (I’m just a strong but average sized lady :P) Anyways, since he was conscious at the hospital they just had a nurse check up on him but he had to wait to see a doctor so he was in the ER for a while.
The doctor did some scans and found that her bf (thankfully) didn’t have any injuries. He said that most likely her bf fainted since he didn’t hit anything on the way down and woke up shortly after. Her bf has also fainted before (long story) so thankfully he was unconscious due to the fainting and not the actual knockout.
After the doctor determined he didn’t have any injuries I called his parents to tell them, and they decided they didn’t need to make the long trip. My daughter’s bf begged me not to tell them the specifics of what had happened so we kept it at that.
For my daughter, we had a conversation about her kink. She says she has a safe word and has never had to use it and her bf always takes care of her after sex to make sure she is okay and loved. I told her that I didn’t want her to be afraid to have sex at home because it’s a safe place and I don’t want her to feel bad over this. I installed a lock on her door as a little “I’m sorry” gift. I think this is something I should have done a while ago to give her some privacy, and I’m glad I’ve got that covered now. I also vowed to never have any surprise visits again.
For her bf I got him a card, some chocolate, and I paid for him to have a night at an Airbnb with her so they could have a private night together.
TLDR; everything worked out in the end. Boyfriend wasn’t hurt, and daughter has a lock on her door now.
RELEVANT COMMENTS
newaccount252
great mum on all fronts
[deleted]
Exactly. OP booked an airbnb to satisfy her daughter’s kink.
OOP
Thought about a hotel room first but didn’t want another TIFU involving police knocking down the door this time 😂.
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YataBLS
I think American culture is just TOO different, my parents told me (And I'm sure 90% of parents always say) "You're grown up, you can have sex with your gf anytime you want, be careful, use protection, assume the consequences, butjust don't fuck in OUR house, there are thousands hotels and motels out there!".
OOP
Ahh I just know how expensive hotels/motels can get and I’d rather this be happening in a safe place like home. If I didn’t allow it at home I’d be scared that she’d be doing it in other dangerous places so it’s fine with me.
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