DAE have hypocritical parents who were pillars of the community?

Seems like a dumb question cuz, yeah the ones you least suspect often seem to be the ones you should suspect the most.

It just kinda sucks cuz he was so loving and caring to my older 3 siblings, and their partners and kids. I guess he just needed to get his trauma, and whatever else, out and an unplanned final pregnancy in retirement (courtesy of my mother essentially tricking him, she’s definitely complicit in this) was his way of doing that, lucky me 😒