Why people are so blind and fail to acknowledge women can be sexual offenders too?

Recent post where someone talked about coming to Chennai and got stared at a bus stand. Under that someone said how he was groped by a middle aged women at KPM temple. For that I replied women can be abusers too, but that got downvoted (obv).Why people in general ridicule male SA victims and still live under the false notion that a women cannot be an abuser and infact protected by the law?? It's high time we acknowledged it. A recent example from another sub reddit

https://np.reddit.com/r/LegalAdviceIndia/comments/15o36m3/update_confronting_her/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1

What are your thoughts on this?