Double standards my husband holds.

I cook and clean for my husband, I don’t go out without his permission. I do his laundry and clean after him. I ask him first in whatever decision I make. I try to respect him as much as I can. What do I get in return, a husband who is comfortable watching women online be it comedy, news, laughing compilations, shorts etc. when he is out, he doesn’t mind interactions with women and doesn’t lower his gaze. As of recently, he has stopped initiating intimacy and when I bring it up, he’s stressed etc. how can I go on trying to be the best housewife I can be with a man like this who expects a traditional Muslim wife?