Why always villianize women?

I know it is a redundant topic but I am going to say,

It genuinely hurts me to see how men are always so excited to play the victims and villianize women. The death that happened was the wife's fault, she is a criminal. And such cases happen. But almost EVERY woman I know has been a victim of harassment of some kind. Even from previous generations.

It's like men can't wait to compare their sufferings to women. Women obviously have unsafe feelings towards men, most women get catcalled / stared / touched so regularly in India that we are numb to it. Out of every ten women I know, 8 women have been victims of physical harassment of some kind - and so many are victims of sexual abuse.

It is genuinely statistical that yes, women have it worse than men. Acid attacks, groping, rapes, physical abuse, casual catcalling, stalking, harassment.

What happened to Atul was tragic and yes, he is one of many victims. So? The system can be changed without making it a competition with women. The numbers are nothing compared to what women go through every day.

Why do men get so defensive when we say that yes, women have it worse! Yes we are unsafe. Yes we are suffering. We are suffering so much that there are hundreds of rape cases every single day in India. Marital rape is legal. Women get harassed every single day and it's never even reported. I have myself been victim of sexual abuse. And I am privileged than most.

Women also have bad apples, but evil manipulative women aren't the norm. I hate when men are talking about being unsafe because they are decent men. Most of their mothers are loyal to their fathers, yet the mothers have gone through abuse at one hand or the other.

How much empathy should we have towards men when we are busy fighting our own fights? Why are we expected to have endless empathy for men when they take every single opportunity to demean and villianize us? When they keep refusing that yes WOMEN SUFFER MORE. That's the genuine truth. You know it is. How come every narrative is a competition with women instead of stand alone men issues?

Yes, women are greedy and emotionally abuse men and can ruin their careers. But most women ARE victims of assualts and harassments. That's just TRUE. Ask around you!

Most men on social media keep complaining that women are gold diggers, they don't talk to ugly guys, they cheat - but I have been harassed so many times in my life I don't even care to remember. So have so many women.