how do i get this out

this is so embedded. i just got it pierced on the weekend and i think jewelry was way too short. my other ear was kind of doing the same and i got it out, but the shiny thing in the middle is the jewelry. can someone please tell me how to get this out it hurts really bad, like an 11/10 on the pain scale

this is so embedded. i just got it pierced on the weekend and i think jewelry was way too short. my other ear was kind of doing the same and i got it out, but the shiny thing in the middle is the jewelry. can someone please tell me how to get this out it hurts really bad, like an 11/10 on the pain scale