I want to try psychedelics. Problem:

I have no time. I just can't stay alone for 8-12 hours for lsd/shrooms. My family just wont let me. DMT or 5-MeO DMT look like the only possible choices but people say I need to stay away from them because they are too overwhelming. I WANT to be overwhelmed and I really want to feel what most of you guys feel. Do I just ditch the psychedelics till I have time or can I do DMT and be fine?