To be an exception, you have to actually be exceptional.

This is the issue I keep seeing with so many guys here being picky or being upset that ‘women break their own rules for THAT guy’. Well, what’s a special about you?

First of all, you’re already narrowing down your dating pool alot by having this “If she truly likes you, she’ll fuck you immediately” attitude but adding, “She can only do it for me or a few guys” makes it even more narrow.

Thinking, “she wants me so bad that she cant control herself” is a nice fantasy….but why would that happen? What’s so unique about you that this would even occur? You rich? You extremely handsome? It cant be personality because you expect women to fuck a stranger.

And its even more audacious when I see guys ALSO claim that women that truly desire a guy if she doesnt expect him to pay for dates. I guess that counts as being exceptional, just in the opposite direction. And if you’re gonna be stingy about paying $20 extra at Olive Garden (for non-America: that means simply paying for her at a typical restaurant), I doubt you’re doing any form of romantic gestures.

You gonna charm your way to instant sex? How? Just giving a bunch of empty generic compliments to her beauty? How is that gonna make you stand out?

Going back to looks, I guess this can work if you’re the hottest guy she’s seen. But if you’re not fitting the conventional beauty standards for attractiveness, there may be chance you’ll only be impressive to women who are also not conventionally attractive nor even average. Hopefully your own look standards are low!

“But what about women?!”

‘I want a sugar daddy without the giving the sugar’ is a now dream, but not reality. Guys will say ‘I only pay for her non-sexual company’ because of legal obligation. Especially if you refuse to fit into the ideal beauty standards for women, why should a guy pay for you to merely exist.

Dont ask for special treatment if youre not special.