Why do some men actually hate women?

I can’t give you all the reasons why some men hate women but here is an element that contributes to that hate. EDUCATION.

Many boys in the childhood and even some girls have been educated to create hate toward the women without even realising it. As a man myself I’ve been « educated » in that way… fortunately I never saw a difference between Humans. I never cared … But here is what I saw and learned as a boy .

I was constantly compared to a girl. My parents, my siblings, my friends , their family, thought me that , stupidity, weakness, attention seeking, pink stuff, crying, being emotional, be unsuccessful, be worthless was associated to being a girl. And that’s no joke. My friends and I were thought to be better than women. « You should be ashamed if a girl is better than you » . Every history book were lacking female presence, therefore strengthening our belief that men are the masters and women the slaves. When I think about it! I feel disgusted ! Surely this is not a excuse for that hate! We grow and we learn ! But how sad is it too know that sweet little boys in this world are educated that way?

And as I said, some girls also didnt escape that kind of education. Some women today will shame a man for be weak and trying to get attention and love , calling them gay or names that actually strengthen the hate of these men for women.

We live in cycle of hate . I don’t know what the future is about … But here is what I’m asking for, and begging you to do, if you have little brothers, sisters and kids Never shame them by comparing them to another gender . Don’t perpetuate this circle of hate please.

And for all of you that suffer because of a man, I’m deeply sorry 🫂