Young Couple looking for Los Angeles play events

My boyfriend (26m) and my self (27f) have been interested in play parties for some time now. We have been to Lovely Fate once- the crowd was super welcoming for our first play event. We got accepted to Bocanegra (recently have heard bad things) and have heard about The Play. If we're going to be paying hundreds of dollars, we want it to be a fun & safe space. What other spots do you recommend?