Babita never let iyer touch since the beginning

I know it's kinda common knowledge in this sub but recently I watching ep 214 in which I noticed the all the couple were dancing in the form of couple dance. Anjali and daya were also dancing together since husbands weren't there but only iyer and babita weren't dancing together.

I know and respect a women choice of not wanting to be touched but that character has been close in fact hugged jetha character on screen. I don't remember her hugging iyer even on that propose day arc.

I don't how iyers actor handles such disrespect that too for years now. As someone who has darker complexion it breaks my heart to see such stuff.