Struggling with outer stigma
Hi there. First off, throwaway account. My (25m) and my girlfriend (23f) have for a while discussed adding a third person to the bedroom. It is something we have both experimented with before and enjoyed. We have discussed boundaries, expectations, everything you should before going into it. I am very turned on by the idea, and don't get very jealous when it comes to things like this. I very much enjoy how open and honest these things can make a relationship. My only worry I am struggling with, is the outside voice of how this would be demeaning to our relationship. How it wouldn't mean as much after. I personally know I would never view my girlfriend differently afterwards, as this is something we are doing together, and would get through any negative experience together. I know she feels the same. Yet that outside stigma still eats at me and causes anxiety. I'm sure others have struggled with this at the beginning and I'm hoping someone has some advice on how to get over that feeling. Thanks in advance!