High Lady thing

I've seen lots of memes or something comparing Rhys and Tamlin about power they gave Fayre, like Tam only saw her as this thing and Rhys made her High Lady and how swoon worthy this is. Am i supposed to like this?
This maybe controversial, but i think Feyre shouldn't be High Lady, at least yet.

Feyre is uneducated, she was literally illiterate one book ago. She has no training whatsoever at politics, especially fay politics, no training/experience at managing estate/city/court. And i mean she could learn, she has time, but right now she's almost illiterate (how many books had she read anyway?) with no knowledge about anything except hunting.

If Rhys needed her to do stuff and needed to give her authority and being his wife doesn't give it, he could've made come job title for her, like ambassador or something.

What i mean is we see a lot in books how being High Lord is hard, a lot of fay became one when they weren't ready, and it was when they were 70+ years (and usually more) and they were trained for it their whole life. They knew customs, they knew culture, they probably read books about managing things, they saw how their relatives do politics for 70+ years and they still weren't ready.

And we have Feyre who just waltz in Night Court and like i supposed to think she would be good at ruling?
I dont like Tam really, but you know what? He is responsible for his people and putting basically a baby on a throne probably not the best way to care about them. Now i dont think that Feyre should be put in a place of home flower, you can teach her, give her responsibilities and eventually give her that title, but now?