Tama ba ung makipaghiwalay na muna ako pansamantala

Problem/Goal:Kapatid niyang manyakis

Context: Me(25F) and my partner(M30) just had our 2nd baby last Aug 27,2024. He changed a bit since I last shared put situation. He also got hired and now working in BPO. Everything is going well naman na saming 2. Nagbigay na din ako ultimatum na if there really no marriage, kahit civil man lang this year, I will be ending us na. I don't wanty kids be branded as illegitimate and have the possibility to be branded as one if my partner does decide to fling his ass to a different damsel.

Ang nakakaworry is mukhang mapapaaga ang pakikipaghiwalay ko dahil sa younger brother niya (18). Puro kagaguhan, kabulastugan ang alam sa buhay, di mapagsabihan, away doon away dito. Kuya niya ang may custody sa kanya ngayon since si mama nila is OFW and papa nila is a deadbeat and an addict. Yan secondary reasons bakit andito siya sa side namin ng kuya niya. Main reason is balak siyang ipatumba sa probinsya nila dahil may minanyak siyang menor de edad. This happened 4 years ago.

Ngayon, kahit ang bigat na sa loob ko na kami pa naalalay sa kapatid niya, sinusubukan ko maglightenupk dahil kapatid niya. Not until last week nung naiwan ng younger brother ni partner na nakalog in acct niya sa cp ng kuya niya, nakita ko may minanyak na naman siya and threatened to sue him due to his explicit behavior. Nag init ang dugo ko. I myself have been abused sexually before kaya napaka-big deal sakin ng ganitong akto. I don't feel safe whenever my partner's brother is here to visit na.

Tama ba kung makipaghiwalay na ako over this situation? Nararamdaman kong bumabalik na trauma ko the longer na kasama ko sa bahay tong kapatid niya. Will not be sleeping anytime soon so please help me out

Previous Attempts: Nung unang beses na kinupkop namin kapatid niya, sinabi koana reservations ko pero he pleaded and stated na baka magbago