AITAH for not wearing the anniversary gift that my gf bought me ?

I ( M,40) have been dating my girlfriend, Erin ( F,39) for a year. Yesterday was the anniversary of our first date. We exchanged gifts. She loved mine but I was kind of taken back when I opened mine. I don’t like jewelry at all. The only jewelry I will ever wear will be my wedding ring. She asked me that before and I told her how much I don’t like wearing jewelry. She got us a matching big “lover’s eye” pendants. Basically it’s a very very close up picture of your lover’s eye turned in to a necklace . I thanked her and she said “common! Wear it! “… I told her I will wear it at home but I don’t like to wear jewelry outside especially at work . She said I’m being an asshole . Honestly, it looks creepy. It’s weird to wear someone’s eye picture around your neck. She has been upset since then. Do I owe her an apology ? Is there a way to solve this problem without insulting her gift ?