Advice on: Lube 1/5

hey all, i feel myself growing to be more risky after being quite reserved and would to throw out for some help, thoughts, guidance on gay topics.

i’ve gotten sick of lube and usually do dry handjobs. i’ve seen guys use types of vasalines, jelly’s, oils and all types of things for handjobs - are these safe? what’s the difference? what do you guys prefer? and give me insight for anal lube.