Childfree Lesbians

Any other lesbians notice that as of late the default for lesbians seems to be to get married and have kids with another woman? I think there is less pressure on us than straight women to do it at a young age but most lesbians still seem to want this lifestyle and it honestly seems odd to me.

I respect anyone who wants to have kids but being a baby obsessed lesbian seems at odds with our sexuality to me. I know that’s controversial but that’s how I feel. I have no maternal instincts and I think I see it as a part of my orientation.

In the not so distant past we as lesbians used to question societal norms a lot more and almost shunned the notion of having kids and saw liberation in a childfree lifestyle but as the gay rights movement began focusing on gay marriage more and more lesbians zeroed in on a desire for “normality” and a nuclear family.

Have any other lesbians noticed this pattern?