Does anyone else feel like their DP/DR makes sex less enjoyable?
I’m (21F) talking more specifically about depersonalisation. I’ve been experiencing dp/dr for nearly a year now and because I feel so disconnected to my body, (I often times look down at my arms and legs and feel as though they aren’t actually my own, which in and of itself is uncomfortable) I don’t think I FEEL sex as much anymore.
Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been with my boyfriend (22M) for 6 years, he’s great, when you’ve been with a good partner for so long it becomes so easy to get each other off, I know he’s not the problem.
I’m still able to orgasm/squirt just fine, but my orgasms have went from a 10/10 intensity, to a 3/10 at best. It’s like I can PHYSICALLY orgasm, but not MENTALLY orgasm? If that makes sense?
I haven’t spoken to my boyfriend about it, because I feel like if he knows I’m not enjoying it fully, that’ll be in the back of his head the whole time and he won’t be as into it. I’m still happy to do it of course, because I know no matter what I’m going through he’s having a good time.