"Text me when you get home"

It's not the guys that are doing this, guess who. Are drivers really considered this much of a threat in general? So many times when I pick up a grill, her friend that is standing next to her audibly says "text me when you get home". And why do guys never feel the need to say this to their friends, lmfao. It low key bothers me dude, how I'm immediately treated as some sort of criminal just right away. And it happens all the time, not just once in a while.