Advice Needed - My soon to be mother in low just asked me if she can renew her vows at our wedding
My soon to be mother in law caught me very off guard yesterday when called me (before even talking to my fiancé, her son) and asked if her and her husband (my fiancés step dad) could renew their vows directly after our ceremony at our wedding.
A couple things to note:
My fiancé does not have a great relationship with her or her husband and feels like they only reach out to talk to him when they want or need something from us.
They are not contributing a penny to our wedding and did not offer to when asking to renew their vows.
She said her main motivation for doing it at our wedding was that all 5 of her kids would be there, they all live in separate states and are hard to get in one place.
I am not someone who is super concerned with my wedding being all about me or anything like that. If anything, I think it’s inappropriate to even ask and my fiancé feels like they essentially want to bum off our wedding (that we are paying close to 10k for by ourselves).
If we say no, we have a feeling it will end up being a massive fight that may result in them not coming.
What would you do?